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What I am doing in 2019 to sort my life out.

What I am doing in 2019 to sort my life out.

I have been regrouping for the last few months and just getting to know my life in the UK again. It is been a rough transition, to say the least, when you are used to a lifestyle and a living dynamic, to have that completely changed in the space of days can be disruptive.

5 tips for when you move across the world

5 tips for when you move across the world

Some of the top stresses in life are a new job and a new house, what do you do when you are dealing with both at the same time, while also factoring in a 4000-mile distance? I took a placement year during my university degree […]

Aaron’s Shearling Guide | What To Wear This Winter

Aaron’s Shearling Guide | What To Wear This Winter

Shearling season is upon us and as a shearling lover, I have compiled my top picks to keep to warm and comfortable this winter. Now my first and only shearling jacket was a treat and probably one of the most expensive pieces of clothing that I have ever possessed. I do not regret a thing. This jacket has pretty much acted like my lifeline, from the harsh winters of NYC to the chilly streets of London, my Burberry shearling jacket was a lifetime investment and has carried me through more winters than you would ever know. I always opt for a suede shearling and I know that it is not very rain friendly but there is something to be said about the comfort of suede. I have always said that comfortable fabrics are at the top of my must-haves list when shopping for new clothes. Shearling is going to be expensive, no matter what way you look at it, I have tried to compile on this list budget friendly right through to treat yo’self. 1. Blake Hedley | The Buckley | Black Suede
£340

blake hedley shearling winter jacket

Now, this goes first because it could potentially be my favourite ever. This is on my Christmas list and I have seen a certain blogger rave about this jacket. There is something kind of beautiful about small companies because they truly take care of the product they offer. I have been after a Blake Hedley for a while, especially the Buckley Suede in black (above). It reminds me of the Acne aviator jacket without the extra 0 on the price tag. Now, this review might update when I have this beautiful jacket in my possession, but for now, it lives in my dreams. Please note: these jackets are made to order and take two-three weeks. Blake Hedley has said that it would not be ready in time for Christmas now but fear not, I am sure that it will still be cold in January. I stumbled upon a discount code online and I have had it confirmed by the Blake Hedley team. For 15% off use the code “BHSAVE15” of “CC15” (Courtesy of blogger Claire Chouquette). You. Are. Welcome. I would style this a little smarter with some Chelsea boots, a dark jean or chino, oxford shirt and a cashmere jumper for some added snugness. 2. All Saints | Myres Shearling Jacket
£750

All Saints has always been a staple in my wardrobe and that is not just because I used to work there. I worked for All Saints because my clothing needs were making me brassic and it offered that 50% discount. I used my working time to get all of my staple pieces, leather jackets, leather shoes etc. This shearling is a stunning piece but I just cannot justify the cost for it. If it ever goes into to sale though, you bet I’ll be looking at selling my Kidney in order to purchase it. I have my tan coloured shearling and I am desperate for something a little sleeker to wear with my all black outfits. I have a few All Saints leather jackets that I have had for years and I am a strong believer in investing in good fabrics. It is cheaper in the long run than replacing with fast fashion every year. 3. Topman | Tan Overdyed Faux Shearling Biker Jacket
£95

Now this one is a faux shearling, these are A LOT cheaper and are equally as stylish. Vegans and Vegetarians, this one is for you. Topman is known for fast-fashion but this is a piece that can stay. I personally really like the buckle and the aviator feel that the jacket has and I am certain that it is equally as warm. It may just not age as well, but at this price, I think it gives you an excuse to just replace it. This one I think would style better with a little more of a casual outfit, even sweatpants and Stan Smiths and then throw this on for an outfit boost. It would also look fabulous over a hoody. 4. JOHN LEWIS & Co. | Shearling Leather Flight Jacket, Chestnut
£350

I have not looked at John Lewis as a fashion house before but I love this jacket. It looks worth at least £1000+ and is a beautiful colour. I think it will wear well, survive years and years and be an investment piece. John Lewis is synonymous with quality and this looks no different. The fabric looks thick and it has a really great caramel colour to the shearling which means it will hide coffee stains a little more (maybe this is only a perk to me?). The little leather accents also add to the jacket without looking tacky. 5. All Saints by Selfridges | Reed shearling-collar leather jacket
£380

I love love love this jacket. There is something to be said about a beautiful tan colour in Autumn and obviously, All Saints is absolutely one of my favourite brands. This appears to be a lot cheaper than I was expecting for the piece as well (still expensive, but cheaper). There is also something I like about the large pockets, great for car keys, pocket tissues and lip balm. You could dress this jacket up and down and it would still look cute.

Winter is supposed to hit hard to stock up on that shearling folks.

A

The Best 5 Books For Millennials Who Want To Get Their Act Together.

The Best 5 Books For Millennials Who Want To Get Their Act Together.

Audiobooks and Audible have been lifesavers for me because it allows me to absorb information while also getting on with my daily commute. Some people will say that this is not a real way to read a book, but I call BS because I think different people learn in different ways.

The Best 5 Financial Decisions You Should Make In 2019

The Best 5 Financial Decisions You Should Make In 2019

Let’s face it, I have never been a fiscal guru. If you put my credit history on a graph it would resemble something like a mountain skyline. From considering selling my kidney to marrying someone so that they can get a visa for cash, older […]

Life Update

Life Update

Hey friends and family, I am back with a life update here and before we start I am a little short on content at the moment so please accept some old silhouettes of me looking wistfully into the distance. Once again I have promised consistent updates, and once again I have taken a spontaneous two-month break from writing. What is the truth of it? Adulting is exhausting and these New Yorkers adult hard. If five years ago someone told me that by the ripe old age of 25 I would be working 60 hour work weeks I would have gotten on the first flight to a tropical island and started a new life for myself selling shells on the beach and in all honestly that thought frequently crosses my mind.

 

 

I am currently in that antagonising wait for the H1B visa, and for those who do not know what that is, it is a lottery to see if I am allowed to stay in the country. Every year the USA opens 65,000 places for talented kids with degrees to obtain an H1B visa and remain in the USA another 3-6 years. Now, unfortunately, this year there was upwards of 190,000 applicants which slim my chances of approval down to around 25-30%. Although, still, I am looking at it in a “glass quarter full” kind of way.

I never thought I would be the type, but I am living for the weekends (sponsored by mimosas). I am not getting the chance to travel as much as I would like to but what I lack in cultural experiences, I am making up for it ten-fold in work experiences. Every day is a new challenge and opportunity for me and managing a team has proven to be demanding but rewarding. To see initiative and creativity flourish has been great. I am spending this weekend in New Jersey with Jenny and her family which I think is a much-needed break. It feels great to be out in some space that does not smell like a public restroom. That is the problem with New York in the summer, all of those grotesque smells are accentuated and enhanced and that is when the deodorant dodgers are at their most noticeable.

 

 

On this blog over the next few weeks, I am hoping to post a few cosmetics reviews as well as some life hacks as I think that is my main point of interest and something that I enjoy doing. I have even thought about *cringe* starting a youtube channel, if not for anyone else but me. The last few years I have felt my confidence decrease massively, and I think since quitting acting and coming of out the proverbial closet my self-confidence has been in rapid decline with a sprinkle of an identity crisis on the side.

Future fear is another element playing on my mind at the moment. If this visa does not get approved, then I will be back to square one. Part of me finds the idea of this refreshing and the promise of being anything and anyone I want is quite liberating. On the other hand, living is expensive, and a guy got bills to pay.

 

 

Mum, dad and Aimee recently visited for my birthday, and I think I was more excited to see their reactions to the big apple than anything else. To see three people experience New York for the first time is fantastic and I took them to all of my favourite places as well as some places I had wanted to try. Where to bring first-time New Yorkers could be a fun post to write actually (parking lot that). We had a chance to do loads of fun things that I have wanted to do for a while now. We saw two Broadway shows, Wicked and Chicago which was both fabulous. I took them to Comedy Cellar in the West Village which was hilarious albeit the aircon too cold and the drinks too strong (yes you heard that correctly). I am not usually one to complain but the pineapple vodka tasted suspiciously like paint thinner so much so that mum could not drink hers so I had no option but to finish it. We managed to pick the best day to go on a river cruise around the bottom half of Manhattan which was not only an excellent tanning opportunity but also a great chance to see the city from different angles and the waitress service meant that I was constantly hydrated if you catch my drift.

That is about all I have for you guys right now in terms of a life update, I am working on creating more content but it is strangely harder than you would think and I am gaining a lot of respect for all of the content creators out there because some of you are killing it! If there is anything anyone would specifically like to know about then shoot me a message because it would be great to see what content is interesting people.

Until next time,

 

A

 

What to do when you’re feeling depleted

What to do when you’re feeling depleted

  “Energy is finite” you have to be careful where you expend it and to whom”   Now picture this story: You are at the office, you had a 6 am start and it is not looking like you will be out much before 6 […]

Does Derma Rolling Work? 0.5mm and 1mm

Does Derma Rolling Work? 0.5mm and 1mm

I wanted to tell you a little about my experience with a derma roller. A derma roller is essentially a bunch of little needles that you roll on to the skin which creates lots of tiny little holes that your body then naturally starts to […]

2018 Skincare Favourites

2018 Skincare Favourites

My main focus this year is going to be on me and to really start working on the things that I do not like about myself. One of these is my skin, I have always had a fragile relationship with my skin to the point where it will react to a number of inevitable life stresses. You best believe that if I had the slightest bit of stress, slept less than 8 hours, consumed fried food, candy or so much as looked at dairy then it would show up on my skin the next day.

I have always been in a trial and error relationship with skincare as well, where I used to work for LUSH all of my cosmetics would be natural and they always have done the job but never quite a WOW transformation so I decided that what my body needed was science-based skincare. I have now opted for a new regime and I will be keeping track of the outcome. Since moving to New York my skin has gotten very oily and congested because of the amount of pollution in the air and on the subway.

Queue the Ordinary, now at first I always thought that the Ordinary was a super clever marketing ploy with its simplistic packaging and hard to believe pricing but I figured I would give it the benefit of the doubt. There are a few different products that I have used from the Ordinary, one being the AHA 30% + BHA 2% Peeling Solution, great exfoliant but I did not notice any long-term benefits and when it comes to a mask I think there are better options out there.

One of my top favourites from the Ordinary is the Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1%. I was sceptical at first (mainly because I had no idea what these two ingredients really did). I have been seeing a huge difference since starting to use it not only in the severity of my acne but the duration that certain pimples would take residence on my face, the consistency is not ideal and can feel a little tacky on the skin at first but that soon disappears, it just means that I have to wait a few minutes before applying additional skincare on it.

 

 

Second, is something that a lot of people may have heard of but it is the Aztec Secrets Indian Healing Mask, the aim of the game is that you mix it one part clay with one part apple cider vinegar. Honestly, best mask I have ever used. Before this I thought the GlamGlow range was the best mask because you could truly feel it working, with Aztec Secrets I could literally feel the grossness being sucked out of my skin, it was truly detoxing and not just fake advertising buzzword “detoxing”. The next day my skin was visibly clearer and the texture was the best it has been for the longest time. Did I mention its only about £13 for a lb as well!?

 

 

Third up is the Ordinary’s 100% Plant-Derived Squalane. I was always used to using creams on my skin to hydrate and I thought that was all I could use because I suffered from oily skin. This oil seems to hydrate super quickly and feels almost like a dry oil. It has also been an excellent base for any makeup products, especially powder foundation. My favourite thing about it is that I can just mix a few drops of it with my other skincare or with my sun protection and it is one less step to worry about.

 

 

Fourth up is a strange product that I stumbled upon. Burts Bees Garden Tomato Toner, it is formulated for an oily and troubled skin. I have always had a small hatred for toners because I felt like they done nothing for my face. This toner actually feels like its benefiting my skin instead of just swiping cloudy aloe water over it with a cotton pad. It comes in a super cute bottle too and is pretty reasonably priced for the ingredients inside it, it leaves my face a little red so I try best to use it mainly in the PM.

 

 

As some of my skincare is quite chemical based and can be quite harsh on my skin I have to be sure that I am using suncare every day, this is one thing which I did not do in Florida. My lack of care in Florida led me to have sun damage to my forehead after just a year of living there. If you are like me and sunscreen makes your skin very oily and sticky then fear not, there are some alternatives, one being La Roche Posay Anthelios SPF 50+ Ultra-Light Fluid. This is a great sunscreen because you can just pop a few drops of foundation with it and use it as a tinted moisturiser. Another sunscreen with similar properties is Glossiers Invisible Shield.

I hope you enjoyed this 2018 skincare favourites if anyone has tried them please comment and let me know what you thought or if you have any ideas on what I should write about next!

Stay Fabulous,

A

Pilot

Pilot

In true Aaron Dowler style – this blog has arrived around several months late. Anyone who followed my story in Florida will know that I am notoriously late and inconsistent when it comes to keeping people updated on my life. It did not help that […]